updated 08/02/2014 AT 8:00 PM ET
•originally published 08/03/2014 AT 9:50 AM ET
Now the actress is opening up about her loss with a heartfelt post on her Instagram account.
“Thank you all for the love and support,” Tobin, 28, wrote on Saturday as she shared a photo of her and Bendik. “Matt was the most extraordinary man I knew and he will live in my heart forever.”
The cause of the 35-year-old nightlife entrepreneur’s death is still unknown.